what is happening here?
dear ones,
if you follow soyala on social media you might have noticed a shift. i have been riffing on relationship over there and i changed the instagram handle and bio. yep, i’ve been going through a re-incarnation.
with the help of one my mentors and some truth seeking colleagues, i was able to acknowledge the pull to allow soyala to shift into a new season that honors my obsession with and gift of being an oracle to long-term relationships.
i have spent years (lifetimes) on my own personal journey to learn how to have a long-term relationship that is deep, connected, pleasurable, and fun.
since i was about 18, i have been on a path of spiritual awakening but for so long the spiritual part of that felt like a real sweet spot. certain other areas of my real life were, ahem, lagging behind.
romantic relationship was my achilles heel.
all of my deepest patterns and issues (hello attachment wounds) show up in the romantic relational field.
now, here i am, three years into my second marriage and honestly, happier and more fulfilled in relationship (and life!) than i even dared to imagine possible.
is this because i finally found the perfect person for me? ahhh, nope. tbh i do not believe in twin flames or any of that “just meet the right person and it is easy” stuff.
what i found is a repeatable way of being – a model of showing up to relationship that works. what i found is that the origin point of a hot and happy relationship is me.
do we still argue, grow apart, stress about our differences, and misunderstand each other? yes, we do. and all of that is met with a map of curiosity and accountability that allows for actual shifts and growth.
as i was realizing that i have studied my butt off and come up with a way of being that works - i also noticed that the women in my circles were asking questions about their long term relationships (romantic, parent and even friendship) a lot. i mean, a lot a lot.
we do not exist in a vacuum. practice is where we practice for our reality. reality is made up of a complex web of relationships.
so, without further ado i gave birth to a sister site, SOYALA together, where i explain some of the nitty gritty of my relationship vibe.
here is the current plan, so you can choose what feels right for you.
i am offering custom packages for profound long-term relationship support over at SOYALA together. if you are interested in doing a package with your partner or on your own (both ways work well!) you can book a free call over there to feel into it.
soyala will continue to be the home for spiritual practice that works for your real life. we will gather for 4-6 week practice circles ongoingly. because practice is where we lay the ground work for relationships that work.
for now, you will receive emails about both kinds of offering here, through our beloved soyala.
got questions?
i am here for them. hit reply and we can dig in together.
xo,
robin
